The surest way to achieve a better quality of life, to be more independent, successful, and highly productive, is to be a low key person to the extreme. Therefore I attempt through this article, to provide you some practical tips in order to reach a comfortable life through being a low-key person
“Stay low key, leave people clueless, and let them assume what they want”
It is highly agreed that we are living in a world that is overwhelmed by curiosity, and inquisitive people who are crazily eager to know every detail of you, therefore, it is tough to remain silent and private about your life, and keep conservative concerning your personal life. Hence I attend to provide you some practical tips towards remaining ‘low key’, but let’s first figure out together what does mean the term ‘ low key’ and what does cost you to master it.
In fact “low key” term has been used differently according to each person and each context, generally, it represents the act of being out of the spotlight and remains private concerning one’s life. According to (Merriam-Webster): ” low key has an often positive connotation. If someone says that they are staying low-key it usually means they are ‘kicking back’, or ‘ ‘shilling’, staying out of the way or out of trouble, or just observing things without making too much of a Stir or fuss”. Furthermore, Merriam added, that this term has a different meaning in slang, whereby she stated:” low-key means ‘quite or ‘ don’t tell anyone’. Low key is an acronym, abbreviation, or slang word that explained above where the low-key definition is given”
In the present article, I attain to shed the light on all the sides of this term including; how to be a private person, and how to keep your personal life secret. Through three effective steps, first of all,
learn to focus on your self:
as Katrina layer once claimed: ” When you learn to love your own company you become far more careful about who you spend your time with”.
I personally believe that the first step towards achieving anything in this life is the self- focus. The moment you start raising your standards and focusing more on yourself, you will no longer accept to be distracted by others.
Cause your standards and self-focus represent how much you value your self, at the same time, it exemplifies the amount of ability that will ultimately empower you to control your personal life and reach your inner peace, far from people’s judgments. Therefore, you are fully responsible for how you are currently being treated by others, people only take control over you that you allow them to have. Hence, by focusing on your self, you can decide to regain that control at any point in your life and to raise your standards, and this will inevitably drive you to be perfectly low key.
Invest in yourself:
This step is strongly related to the previous one and it might be the predictor of being extremely and successfully low key person, surely, one of the best profitable investments you can ever do in your life is to invest in yourself, rather than focusing on others’ lives and matters. by exploring and developing your skills and knowledge through reading books or articles about a talent you want to work on it. You can even enroll in a new language class wither online or in private schools.
You might ask why I have to invest in myself, while my ultimate goal is to be a low key person. Well, let me drive your attention to this point because you must know that the efforts you make in order to work on your self, plays a large role in determining your life generally, and your personality more specifically, and this will inevitably pave your path to be perfectly a low-key person.
Ignore others’ opinions:
Is one of the basic rules in order to reach your inner peace and having a full ability to control your life
As the moral and social philosopher Eric Hoffer once said:
” a man is likely to mind his own business when it is worth, minding when it is not, he takes his mind off his own meaningless affairs by minding other peoples business”
Ignoring others’ opinions is certainly, a skill that should be practiced like any other skills, simply put when you stop Giving others permission to interfere in your own matters, mainly your personal life, you’ll have the key to be extremely a low-key person and none will have the ability to shift your personality.
“If you want to live a happy life tie it to a goal not to people or things”
” Just because you don’t share it on social media. Doesn’t mean you are not up to big things. Live it and stay low-key”